You can only change your relationship if you take full responsibility for it.
I hear so often that women start to blame their partner, he’s that and he does that and doesn’t do this.
How often do you blame your partner? I know it happens to me, even knowing all this stuff I still need to be very aware and take full responsibility for my actions and my contribution to the relationship.
The truth is, if we blame, we can’t really change anything. We go into a victim mode and loose all power.
To start changing things the first step is to take full responsibility for what’s happening in the present moment.
What is it that you don’t like in your relationship?
Maybe he doesn’t pay enough attention to you and is always busy with other things?
Now ask yourself, how am I contributing to him not paying enough attention to me?
Do I do something to push him away?
Do I act in a controlling way?
Am I scared of him pulling away and become even more controlling so it repels him?
Am I spending a lot of time in my active masculine energy and rarely put my ‘girly’ hat on and thus push him away?
Remember, men only want to be romantic with women, they don’t take their mates on a date.
Or maybe for you it’s:
Do I pay enough attention to myself? Do I take care of myself?
Maybe it’s that he doesn’t satisfy you sexually.
Do you know how to satisfy yourself?
Do you share with him what makes you feel all excited?
Do you know your pleasure anatomy?
Become curious about yourself and your way of being in your relationship.
Don’t start judging or blaming yourself! Just become curious.
It’s so exciting to learn new thing about yourself.
And remember, you are beautiful and sexy!
To love and intimacy in your home!